Wednesday Mar 15, 2023
57 | Side of Raunch
Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray
Ill Advised with Stefani and Ray is a comedy-advice podcast where friendship meets life’s messiest situations. Each week, the BiFFs dive into classic and modern advice columns — from the sincere & genuine to the unhinged & absurd — and serve up their own brand of thoughtful, unfiltered advice, the way only a best friend could. If you like living through someone else’s drama, emotional deep-dives, and laughing through life’s inconveniences, this one’s for you. Join the BiFFs — Stefani & Ray — as they dig into advice columns and dish out their own insights with humor, heart, and a whole lot of therapy under their belts. Come for the laugh. Stay for the advice. Therapy-adjacent, wine-fueled, and probably ill advised.
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Episodes
Episodes
Wednesday Mar 08, 2023
Wednesday Mar 08, 2023
Reflecting on the NY Times’, the Ethicist, the BiFFs try their hand at providing moral and ethical guidance regarding a mother’s confession of infidelity following her husband’s death, a writer who wonders if the murder she witnessed is canon, and the ethical responsibility to reveal that the death of a son was due to an overdose. [La Marca Prosecco]
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Wednesday Mar 01, 2023
Wednesday Mar 01, 2023
The BiFFs talk through the guidance of Advice Goddess Amy Alkon. An unsupportive best friend isn’t your best friend. A husband trying to “show up” stirs up memories of hate and deceit. Paper thin walls allow a neighbor to eavesdrop on another’s verbal abuse. Girl’s night turns into a discussion about the value of “I’m sorry.” [Cloud No. 9 Sauvignon Blanc, 2017]
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Wednesday Feb 22, 2023
Wednesday Feb 22, 2023
The BiFFs take to Reddit’s Am I the Asshole (AITA) thread. Topics include wall demolishing tongs, taking away your maid of honor’s “plus-three,” dirty underwear in exchange for groceries, and cutting out on your son’s wedding to be with his ex-wife. [Bodega Garzon Cabernet Franc, 2019]
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Wednesday Feb 15, 2023
Wednesday Feb 15, 2023
Workplace wet dreams. Kids' similarities to their father trigger mom. Crazy ex-girlfriend gets ballsy. It gets personal with Little Village Mag’s Dear Kiki. All that and more from the Biffs in this week’s episode. [Mauro Molino Barbera d'Alba, 2020]
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Thursday Feb 09, 2023
Thursday Feb 09, 2023
Wednesday Feb 08, 2023
Wednesday Feb 08, 2023
The BiFFs revisit the Urban Diplomat this week. One writer teeters between shame and falling from grace. A peeper complains that her neighbor is peeping. Lemonade and ball-hockey piss off an abutting neighbor. And do ear infections really put hair on your chest? [Bancroft Estates Sauvignon Blanc, 2021]
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Wednesday Feb 01, 2023
Wednesday Feb 01, 2023
This week’s episode features Dear Kiki. The BiFFs discuss the dislike of receiving oral sex, a minor on Tinder pushing the legal limits with a twenty-three year old, and age as a factor in a relationship where the other half is barely legal. [Cap Royal Bordeaux Supérieur, 2019]
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Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com