Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

52 - Walking Bowel Syndrome

The BiFFs revisit the Urban Diplomat this week. One writer teeters between shame and falling from grace. A peeper complains that her neighbor is peeping. Lemonade and ball-hockey piss off an abutting neighbor. And do ear infections really put hair on your chest? [Bancroft Estates 2021 Sauvignon Blanc]

51 - Part My Red Sea

This week’s episode features Dear Kiki. The BiFFs discuss the dislike of receiving oral sex, a minor on Tinder pushing the legal limits with a twenty-three year old, and age as a factor in a relationship where the other half is barely legal. [Cap Royal 2019 Bordeaux Supérieur]

50 - Came Back With A Yamaka

On the week of our 50th episode, we’re talking through the classic Dear Abby columns. A man keeps his knowledge of his wife’s affair from her. A father and daughter, each struggling with addiction, wage a child-custody battle. A dormant STI turns a long marriage into a ‘whodunnit.’ [Luc Belaire Gold Champagne]

49 - It’s the Moistest

Recorded in 2022, this weeks episode is call-back to advice column classics, Abby and Annie. A step mom demands modest panties at her wedding. A woman finds her engagement ring distasteful. A person in recovery wants to stay on track by saying goodbye to her former love. Finally, a wife catches her husband talking to other women on Twitter. [Apothic Pinot Noir]

48 - The Little Train That Can

The BiFFs revisit the Slates “How To Do It” this week. High school sweethearts agree to open the relationship, but one loses their head. A wife shares her husband’s penile counterfeit with her bestie. And a girlfriend wants veto power when her man zeroes in on her friend. [Peirano Estates “The Immortal Zin” 2016 Zinfandel]

47 - Pullout’s Forever

Happy 2023! The BiFFs kick off the New Year with a new column, Urban Diplomat - covering nude leaks on the internet, workplace porn, and bedside-rights. [Lilliano 2016 Chianti Classico]

46 - You Already Came

In the last episode of 2022, the BiFFs get to the heart of family drama with Dear Abby’s Holiday advice throughout the years. [Absolut Peppar Bloody Mary]

45 - We Put the ”Ugh” in Thought

The BiFFs help a spouse navigate the holidays with her own real-life Scrooge, weigh in on break-ups over the holiday season, and contemplate accepting gifts from those we perceive as less fortunate. [Marques de Caceres 2018 Garnacha]