Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

43 - Swing-Bangin’ to Death

A husband who won’t put out kills his wife’s vibe. Parents of forbidden lovers offer to end their love for them. Heather wants to blow her parent’s sexy swinging secret. [Valdo Rose Brut]

42 - Momma Said Knock You Up

This week the BiFFs play poison control with E. Jean, and then join Prudie to intervene in racial stereotypes and dodge an exorcism. [Austerity 2017 Cabernet Sauvignon]

41 - You Gon’ Give Thanks

It’s Thanksgiving and the BiFFs are in the holiday spirit. Let’s serve up a side of unhelpful in-laws, with a little Black-Friday shopping poured over top. Who needs turkey when you can serve politics on a silver platter. Set a plate for Dad’s little secret. She’s coming to dinner, and she ain’t keeping quiet. [Sail to Trail 2016 Malbec]

40 - Lordy, Lordy

The BiFFs celebrate forty episodes with an audience of family and friends. Listen on as they tackle Reddit's Am I The Assh*ole thread. Join Stefani, Ray, and friends as they address a deadbeat fiancé, a live-in mom’s disrespect, a house-stealing brother, and a woman who chooses her partner via credit check and bank info. [Sterling 2019 Chardonnay (White Sangria)]

39 - For Entertainment Purposes Only

The BiFFs warm up with Gawking Gary and Sterile Steve, who hasn't put out for ten years. Oh, bee-tee-dubz, your mother puts out. [Old Soul 2020 Chardonnay]

38 - Rectum Ralph

Stefani and Ray turn to the Slate's "How to Do It" for content this week. Where does Chelsea put her Cherry Chapstick? Mother and son - a bond to be undone. How hot is your cousin? Hot enough to...? It ain't a wine night. [Chateau Bel Air 2019 Bordeaux and Bonfante & Chiarle 2015 Barolo]

37 - I’ve Got A Sexy Sermon

This week, Stefani and Ray reflect on Little Village Mag's Dear Kiki. A boyfriend falls victim to his girlfriend's trap when he accepts her invitation to rifle through her text messages. Rambunctious sexual responses from her partner leave a girlfriend's neighbors flustered. A friendly female finds herself dodging the advances of older men. [Château La Commanderie du Bardelet 2018 Sauvignon Blanc]

36 - Rock Hard Chonkers

Emily Yoffe of tried-and-true Dear Prudie fame takes center stage as the topic of conversation with Stefani and Ray. A live-in girlfriend takes it upon herself to surveil the kids. A husband's dead wife gets credit for making way for happiness in his new marriage. A trans woman keeps her transition a secret from her new partner. [Chateau de Roques 2015 Puisseguin St Emilion]