Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

Ill Advised with Stefani and Ray is a comedy-advice podcast where friendship meets life’s messiest situations. Each week, the BiFFs dive into classic and modern advice columns — from the sincere & genuine to the unhinged & absurd — and serve up their own brand of thoughtful, unfiltered advice, the way only a best friend could. If you like living through someone else’s drama, emotional deep-dives, and laughing through life’s inconveniences, this one’s for you. Join the BiFFs — Stefani & Ray — as they dig into advice columns and dish out their own insights with humor, heart, and a whole lot of therapy under their belts. Come for the laugh. Stay for the advice. Therapy-adjacent, wine-fueled, and probably ill advised.
Episodes
Episodes



Wednesday Jan 18, 2023
49 | It’s the Moistest
Wednesday Jan 18, 2023
Wednesday Jan 18, 2023
Recorded in 2022, this weeks episode is call-back to advice column classics, Abby and Annie. A step mom demands modest panties at her wedding. A woman finds her engagement ring distasteful. A person in recovery wants to stay on track by saying goodbye to her former love. Finally, a wife catches her husband talking to other women on Twitter. [Apothic Pinot Noir]
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Wednesday Jan 11, 2023
48 | The Little Train That Can
Wednesday Jan 11, 2023
Wednesday Jan 11, 2023
The BiFFs revisit the Slates “How To Do It” this week. High school sweethearts agree to open the relationship, but one loses their head. A wife shares her husband’s penile counterfeit with her bestie. And a girlfriend wants veto power when her man zeroes in on her friend. [Peirano Estates “The Immortal Zin” Zinfandel, 2016]
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Wednesday Jan 04, 2023
47 | Pullout’s Forever
Wednesday Jan 04, 2023
Wednesday Jan 04, 2023
Happy 2023! The BiFFs kick off the New Year with a new column, Urban Diplomat - covering nude leaks on the internet, workplace porn, and bedside-rights. [Lilliano Chianti Classico, 2016]
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Wednesday Dec 28, 2022
46 | You Already Came
Wednesday Dec 28, 2022
Wednesday Dec 28, 2022
In the last episode of 2022, the BiFFs get to the heart of family drama with Dear Abby’s Holiday advice throughout the years. [Absolut Peppar Bloody Mary]
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Wednesday Dec 21, 2022
45 | We Put the ”Ugh” in Thought
Wednesday Dec 21, 2022
Wednesday Dec 21, 2022
The BiFFs help a spouse navigate the holidays with her own real-life Scrooge, weigh in on break-ups over the holiday season, and contemplate accepting gifts from those we perceive as less fortunate. [Marques de Caceres Garnacha, 2018]
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Wednesday Dec 14, 2022
44 | Pass Me The Stiff Cheese
Wednesday Dec 14, 2022
Wednesday Dec 14, 2022
It's bad advice all around this week. The BiFFs take on a Mom who wants to give her youngster a custom thong, a husband past his prime loves on his kiddos leaving his wife jealous, and a parent makes a big deal out of pronouns. [Antigal Uno Malbec, 2018]
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Wednesday Dec 07, 2022
43 | Swing-Bangin’ to Death
Wednesday Dec 07, 2022
Wednesday Dec 07, 2022
A husband who won’t put out kills his wife’s vibe. Parents of forbidden lovers offer to end their love for them. Heather wants to blow her parent’s sexy swinging secret. [Valdo Rosé Brut]
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Wednesday Nov 30, 2022
42 | Momma Said Knock You Up
Wednesday Nov 30, 2022
Wednesday Nov 30, 2022
This week the BiFFs play poison control with E. Jean, and then join Prudie to intervene in racial stereotypes and dodge an exorcism. [Austerity Cabernet Sauvignon, 2017]
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