Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

16 - The Forest of My Life

The BiFFs are reeling from a long, emotionally arduous day in the third episode of the mental health series. A series of events prior to recording guide an otherwise aloof pair in discussing their current mental states, their coping mechanisms, and how exhausting tending to your mental health can been. [Z Alexander Brown 2020 Sauvignon Blanc]

15 - My Perception of Normal

In the second of four episodes in the mental health series, the BiFFs delve deeper into their mental health struggles. They go over what their anxieties and depression look like, how they've been affected by them, and how that's played out in their relationships. [Clos du Gaimont 2019 Vouvray]

14 - You’re At Where You’re At & That’s Okay

May is Mental Health Awareness Month and Stefani and Ray kick off the month discussing their own personal mental health struggles. The first in a series of four episodes, the BiFFs get candid about their diagnosed conditions and their ever-evolving journeys in their quest to remove the stigma to promote safe and open discussions in the realm of mental health. Let's breach the topic over a glass of a 2019 Simi Chardonnay.

13 - Swipe If You Want The Pipe

A story of internet love and first-time physical intimacy cause the BiFFs to relive a dual-cat-fishing. In spite of her orgasms, a question of impotency drives a woman to ask for outside help. A man's tryst with his best friends ex, blinds him to her personal agenda.  Serve up a double sausage pizza, pour a glass of your favorite Ashanti (2016 Le Bocce Chianti Classico), and join the BiFFs as they go through Thillist.com's In Bed with Gigi Engle. 

12 - That Really Googles My Grundle

How do you feel about your fiance seeing other naked bodies at a strip club? Does your sober sibling have the right to dictate how you live your life? Is the quality of your friendships dependent on the material things that you own? The BiFFs put their advice up against Elle Magazine's Ask Jean. #WhatTheElle [Casillero del Diablo 2019 Malbec]

11 - God Damn It, Kourtney

Could a couple of pounds really affect your love for- and future with- someone? The BiFFs, Stefani and Ray, get carried away when they stumble across the "Dear Sugars" advice column - a question involving love, self-sabotage, and a lack of physical attraction. This one hits home and spider-webs into more questions and other scenarios. This week's drink of choice is a [90+ Cellars Lot 174 2020 Alabariño]

10 - Libidinous Barbarians

The BiFFs open a bottle of Brut to celebrate 10 episodes with special guests, Jenny & Kellee, who lead the discussion with Slate Magazine's "How To Do It" Sex Column. A mild-mannered man's vanilla approach to rough sex starts this week's conversation. Meanwhile, another man questions the need for consent after he's robbed of his own. Stay turned for a third, looking to get freaky at a rest home. [Mionetto Prosecco]

9 - Let Him In Marjorie

The BiFFs get a little unruly this week. Thankfully, columnist Carolyn Hax is on her game. A year of couples counseling leaves partners in limbo and a new girlfriend takes herself off of the pedestal when she feels the ex-wife becomes the butt of the joke. Cleat up, BiFFs. [Drylands 2012 Sauvignon Blanc]