Wednesday May 04, 2022
14 | You’re At Where You’re At & That’s Okay
Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray
Ill Advised with Stefani and Ray is a comedy-advice podcast where friendship meets life’s messiest situations. Each week, the BiFFs dive into classic and modern advice columns — from the sincere & genuine to the unhinged & absurd — and serve up their own brand of thoughtful, unfiltered advice, the way only a best friend could. If you like living through someone else’s drama, emotional deep-dives, and laughing through life’s inconveniences, this one’s for you. Join the BiFFs — Stefani & Ray — as they dig into advice columns and dish out their own insights with humor, heart, and a whole lot of therapy under their belts. Come for the laugh. Stay for the advice. Therapy-adjacent, wine-fueled, and probably ill advised.
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Episodes
Episodes
Wednesday Apr 27, 2022
Wednesday Apr 27, 2022
A story of internet love and first-time physical intimacy cause the BiFFs to relive a dual-cat-fishing. In spite of her orgasms, a question of impotency drives a woman to ask for outside help. A man's tryst with his best friends ex, blinds him to her personal agenda. Serve up a double sausage pizza, pour a glass of your favorite Ashanti (Le Bocce Chianti Classico, 2016), and join the BiFFs as they go through Thillist.com's In Bed with Gigi Engle.
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Wednesday Apr 20, 2022
Wednesday Apr 20, 2022
How do you feel about your fiance seeing other naked bodies at a strip club? Does your sober sibling have the right to dictate how you live your life? Is the quality of your friendships dependent on the material things that you own? The BiFFs put their advice up against Elle Magazine's Ask Jean. #WhatTheElle [Casillero del Diablo Malbec, 2019]
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Wednesday Apr 13, 2022
Wednesday Apr 13, 2022
Could a couple of pounds really affect your love for- and future with- someone? The BiFFs, Stefani and Ray, get carried away when they stumble across the "Dear Sugars" advice column - a question involving love, self-sabotage, and a lack of physical attraction. This one hits home and spider-webs into more questions and other scenarios. This week's drink of choice is a [90+ Cellars Lot 174 Alabariño, 2020]
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Wednesday Apr 06, 2022
Wednesday Apr 06, 2022
The BiFFs open a bottle of Brut to celebrate 10 episodes with special guests, Jenny & Kellee, who lead the discussion with Slate Magazine's "How To Do It" Sex Column. A mild-mannered man's vanilla approach to rough sex starts this week's conversation. Meanwhile, another man questions the need for consent after he's robbed of his own. Stay turned for a third, looking to get freaky at a rest home. [Mionetto Prosecco]
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Wednesday Mar 30, 2022
Wednesday Mar 30, 2022
The BiFFs get a little unruly this week. Thankfully, columnist Carolyn Hax is on her game. A year of couples counseling leaves partners in limbo and a new girlfriend takes herself off of the pedestal when she feels the ex-wife becomes the butt of the joke. Cleat up, BiFFs. [Drylands Sauvignon Blanc, 2012]
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Wednesday Mar 23, 2022
Wednesday Mar 23, 2022
Miss Manners talks a "Karen" off the proverbial ledge over her plea for silence in a public venue, whilst Cheryl tries to stop a cemetery scavenger hunt. Sharon's hate for food service workers wraps up this week's topics. [Chateau Tour d'Auron 2016 Bordeaux, 2016]
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Wednesday Mar 16, 2022
Wednesday Mar 16, 2022
Not even the wine could cushion the blows of Grandma's fictional tale of custodial, vehicular manslaughter, the plea for an open marriage because "I love her like a sister," or even a daughter's racist agenda against her step-mom. [Nobilo Sauvignon Blanc, 2020]
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Wednesday Mar 09, 2022
Wednesday Mar 09, 2022
In the midst of finding your people, one must let Facebook and let live. [Black Box Cabernet Sauvignon, 2020]
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