Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

59 - Gaslighty

The BiFFs go back to Ask Oloni of SimplyOloni.com this week. Topics include exposing an old flame to an STI in a non-consensual, monogamous relationship; convincing oneself to stay in a relationship because of your partner's mental health; apologizing to your man because of his insecurities; and what to do when oral sex isn't reciprocated. [A to Z Wineworks Bubbles Sparkling Rose]

58 - Hang On To Your Diapies

This week, the BiFFs mix it up with Amy and Annie this episode, covering: an exes dark secret plaguing a Mom, a secret girl-friend of two years with a lover less than half his age, & a writer leaving an emotionally abusive relationship facing a moral obstacle. [VOGA Italia 2021 Pinot Grigio]

57 - Side of Raunch

This week, the BiFFs take to the Slate's "How To Do It" column to discuss a woman treating her husband's affair as personal entertainment, the ethics of removing a condom mid-sex, and the type of porn you might need to be watching to prove that you're straight. [Château Recougne 2018 Bordeaux Supérieur]

56 - Utilize Your Urethra

Reflecting on the NY Times’, the Ethicist, the BiFFs try their hand at providing moral and ethical guidance regarding a mother’s confession of infidelity following her husband’s death, a writer who wonders if the murder she witnessed is canon, and the ethical responsibility to reveal that the death of a son was due to an overdose. [La Marca Prosecco]

55 - He Shan’t Advise

The BiFFs talk through the guidance of Advice Goddess Amy Alkon. An unsupportive best friend isn’t your best friend. A husband trying to “show up” stirs up memories of hate and deceit. Paper thin walls allow a neighbor to eavesdrop on another’s verbal abuse. Girl’s night turns into a discussion about the value of “I’m sorry.” [Cloud No. 9 2017 Sauvignon Blanc]

54 - Auntie AITA

The BiFFs take to Reddit’s Am I the Asshole (AITA) thread. Topics include wall demolishing tongs, taking away your maid of honor’s “plus-three,” dirty underwear in exchange for groceries, and cutting out on your son’s wedding to be with his ex-wife. [Bodega Garzon 2019 Cabernet Franc]

53 - That’s Cough With An ’L’

Workplace wet dreams. Kids' similarities to their father trigger mom. Crazy ex-girlfriend gets ballsy. It gets personal with Little Village Mag’s Dear Kiki. All that and more from the BiFFs in this week’s episode. [Mauro Molino 2020 Barbera d'Alba]

Ill Advised w/ Stefani & Ray: Trailer (Extended)